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Self-Represented in Family Court

Your lawyer is gone, or the money to keep paying one is running out, but your Family Court case is not over yet and honestly, there seems to be no end in sight.


Self-Represented in Family Court is the strategy and trial-preparation podcast for people representing themselves in high-conflict divorce, custody, child support and related contested family law matters.


Hosted by Tracey Bee, a former family-law attorney and the founder of The Divorce Solutionist®, this podcast helps you understand what it takes to become a strategically prepared pro se litigant. We specifically focus on topics relevant to  you if your attorney has withdrawn, your retainer has become unsustainable, you cannot afford continued representation or trial is approaching and you do not know what to do next.


This is NOT generic legal information, motivational encouragement or another podcast telling you simply to “believe in yourself.” Tracey examines the hidden strategic problems that can have the most impact on what happens in court:

  • What did your attorney complete and what did they leave unfinished?
  • Do you have your entire client file or merely a folder full of random documents?
  • What does the judge still have to decide?
  • What must you prove to obtain the outcome you are requesting?
  • Does your evidence establish a relevant disputed fact or only tell your story?
  • Which witnesses help prove your case, and which may weaken it?
  • What Discovery, procedural or trial-preparation gaps still need attention?
  • Can you realistically handle your hearing or trial without an attorney?
  • Where would targeted legal assistance or support create the greatest value?
  • How should you allocate any money or resources you have left?


Episodes explore topics that address Family Court trial preparation, attorney-to-pro-se transition, case strategy, evidence analysis & organization, 
Discovery, witnesses selection, courtroom procedure, judicial decision-making, direct and cross-examination, settlement, litigation costs and the practical realities of presenting your own case particularly at hearing or trial.


You will learn why proving that your ex lied is not necessarily the same as proving your case; why your strongest evidence may never be seen or heard by the judge; why a beautiful trial binder cannot repair a weak case theory; and why the relief you are requesting may be the most vulnerable part of your case.


Tracey’s approach is grounded in one central principle:

You do NOT need to become a lawyer. You need to become a prepared litigant.

Some people can proceed through Family Court with structured preparation and strategic support. Others need targeted attorney involvement or full legal representation. This podcast helps you understand the difference, identify the gaps in your case and make more deliberate decisions before fear, depleted finances or an approaching trial date makes those decisions for you.


If your lawyer has withdrawn, you are preparing to transition from represented to pro se, or you are facing a Family Court hearing or trial without counsel, start listening now.


Learn more about Tracey’s From Represented to Pro Se™ Case Transition & Trial Readiness Assessment, Trial Strategy Intensives and comprehensive trial-preparation services at TheDivorceSolutionist.com.


Educational and strategic information only. This podcast does not provide legal advice, create an attorney-client relationship or replace advice from a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.



Follow me on social media @TheDivorceSolutionist or @FamilyCourtStrategist

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