Self-Represented in Family Court
We discuss how to use strategy in Family Court to get the results you want. A family law professional with twenty years of experience in the field will share with you what really matters in Family Court.
Whether you are going through divorce or custody, if you are representing yourself you need to know the tactics that will end the torment you have been enduring up until this point.
We will share tips, tricks, techniques, and everything else that your lawyer will never divulge. If you have been getting disappointment from lawyers, the judge, or the overall process, tune in to get help on plotting your next move.
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Episodes
48 episodes
Season 3. Ep 5. Reframing: It IS What You Said AND HOW You Said It
Ever walked out of a courtroom thinking, “What just happened in there?” You told the truth. You stayed calm. You presented your evidence — and somehow, the judge still didn’t get it.If that sounds like you, this episode is y...
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Season 3. Ep 4. Analyzing Court Rulings to Move Your Case Forward
Tracey Bee breaks down how to turn court rulings, whether wins, losses, or partial decisions, into strategic data points you can actually use to finally move your case forward.She explains how to read between the lines of your j...
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Season 3. Ep 3. How to Get — and Keep — a Restraining Order That Actually Protects You
Tracey Bee breaks down civil vs. criminal restraining orders as it relates to Family Court issues. She also goes into things like why requests get denied, and how to build a stronger application if you’re self‑represented...
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Season 3 - Episode 2: Strategy Destroyed: How the Blind Spots in Family Court Ruins Your Case
Most litigants lose in Family Court for reasons they never even see coming. In this episode, I’m breaking down the hidden blind spots that can quietly sabotage your case—even when you think it’s airtight. Whether you’re representing yourself, s...
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Season 3 Kickoff: Empowerment, Strategy & Beating the Rigged Family Court System
Welcome back to Self-Represented in Family Court! In this Season 3 opener, Tracey Bee (your host, former family law attorney, mediator, and strategist) sets the stage for the most empowering season yet. After a summer of building...
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Episode 1
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Season 2 - Episode 18: Using Mediation Strategically in Family Court
In this insightful episode your host, Tracey Bee, founder of The Divorce Solutionist, former family law attorney, and your go-to pro se strategist — pulls back the curtain on one of the most misunderstood tools in the family court system: me...
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Episode 18
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Season 2 - Episode 17: Workarounds for When You Can't Afford to Work with Divorce Professionals
The family court battlefield can feel overwhelming, but in this episode, Tracey Bee is arming you with a secret weapon: workarounds. Designed for pro se litigants and anyone looking to take charge of their case, we’re unpacking clever, strategi...
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Episode 17
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Season 2 - Episode 16: AI In Family Law
In this compelling episode of Self-Represented in Family Court, host Tracey Bee —the only pro se family court strategist — dives into a transformative topic: Artificial Intelligence and its potential in the hands of self-represented li...
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Episode 16
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Season 2 - Episode 15: You've Just Been Served? Key Things to Look for to Check the Legal Document Validity
If you've just been served, don’t panic—know what to look for. In this episode, Tracey B breaks down the essential elements to examine when you receive a legal document, motion, or petition in a family court case. Whether y...
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Episode 15
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Season 2 - Episode 14: The Self Employed, Business Owner or 1099 Pro
Are you a business owner, freelancer, or 1099 contractor navigating divorce without a lawyer? In this episode of Self-Represented in Family Court, Tracey B. dives into the unique challenges—and real opportunities—for self-employed individ...
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Episode 14
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Season 2- Episode 12: The Changing Landscape of Divorce: What You Need to Know
The way divorce services are delivered is evolving, and in this episode, we’re diving into the major shifts happening in the industry. From legal professionals and paralegals to divorce coaches and financial organizers, we explore the different...
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Episode 12
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43:21
Season 2- Episode 11: When to (or Not) Self-Represent in Family Court
Have you ever wondered if representing yourself in family court is the right move for you, your family or your goals ? In this episode, I dive into the complexities of self-representation in family court cases. Using my experi...
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Episode 11
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Season 2 - Episode 10: Ethical or Unethical Practices of Lawyers in Family Court
Is Your Lawyer Crossing the Line? Ethical or Unethical Practices in Family CourtDo you trust your lawyer's motivations and methods? It's time to take a deeper look. In today’s episode, we dissect the fine line between ethical and unethic...
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Episode 10
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Season 2 - Episode 9: Having Support Systems during Your Family Court Experience: A Strategic Approach
In this episode of Self Represented in Family Court, I’m diving deep into the power of strategy in family court proceedings. Whether you're representing yourself or working with legal counsel, having a solid strategy—and the right supp...
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Episode 9
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Season 2 Episode 8: The Legal Costs & Fees in Family Law-An In-Depth Look
Navigating family court can deplete you of every ounce of energy, every sense of sanity and every dime you have, especially when you're representing yourself. In my latest episode of Self Represented in Family Court, I spend time going...
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Episode 8
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Season 2 Episode 7: Navigating Family Court as a Pro Se Litigant
Do you think representing yourself in family court is an uphill battle or a strategic advantage? Well, it's both—and more. In this episode, I’m going to uncover the nuances of navigating family court as a pro se or self-represented litigant. I’...
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Season 2 - Episode 6: The "Real" of Coercive Control & Its Application in Family Court
In this episode, we confront a critical yet often overlooked aspect of domestic violence: coercive control. As a form of abuse that manipulates an individual's freedom and decision-making, coercive control includes behaviors like monitoring spe...
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Season 2 - Episode 5: October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month
This week, in recognition of October as Domestic Violence Awareness Month, we're dedicating the next few episodes to all the brave survivors of domestic violence. We take a look into the challenges of presenting domestic violence cases in famil...
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Season 2 Episode 4: Ten Things to Avoid Wasting Your Life Savings on Legal Fees
Today we're exploring a crucial topic: how to avoid wasting your life savings on legal fees. We'll discuss strategic approaches to settling disputes independently, performing cost-benefit analyses, and leveraging tools to make informed decision...
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Episode 4
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Season 2 Episode 3: Being Strategic with Parenting Plans
Do you think creating a parenting plan is an easy, straightforward process? Or that even having one is an absolute MUST? Well, think again. Discover how overly lengthy and generic parenting plans can do more harm than good, especially in high-c...
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Episode 3
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S2E2: Choosing to File Contempt in Family Court
Think you know how Family Courts operate when it comes to enforcing, punishing or even taking action when there is uncooperation between the parties? Think again. In this eye-opening episode, I pull back the curtain to reveal the strategic nuan...
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Season 2 - Episode 1: Perjury in Family Court - An Honest Look at its Impact & Use
Welcome back, listeners! Did you miss your favorite family court strategist? Well, season two kicks off with a bang as we dive into an often misunderstood but critically important topic: perjury in family court.In this enlightening episo...
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Family Court Strategy for Dads (Father's Day Edition)
**Think Family Court is Simple? Think Again. A Reality Check for Dads Navigating Custody Battles.**Welcome back to another eye-opening episode of Self-Represented in Family Court, with your host Family Court Strategist™ Tracey Bee. If...
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